The Best Way to Overcome your Burdens

Take His yoke upon you to lighten the load.As a child, I thought Jesus liked His eggs sunny side up.

I never understood biblical metaphors like Psalm 23:1 “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.”

I don’t want the Lord to be my shepherd?  (It’s a good thing I was a cute child!)

Psalm 23 goes on to talk about God leading me to still waters.

Full disclosure, I would rather be led to Krispy Creme when the HOT button is on!

He also makes me lie down in green pastures?

I wish he would make me lie down on one of those Tempur-pedic beds! (Have you tried one…The Husband and I are shopping for a new mattress! It’s DREAMY!!)

“Christ’s yoke is easy and His burden is light” wasn’t helpful information for me to gain insight into how God works.

All it did was make me think about Jesus eating eggs.

During our Take heart series I have talked about God’s unfailing love, the Hope we can have in Him, and that we are safe to put our trust in Him.

This week, I want to talk about REST.

Not Tempur-pedic bed rest, but spiritual rest.

Rest that comes from knowing you don’t have to figure life out on your own.

I DO anxious like a Rock Star but I stink at rest!

Here’s a Quiz:

You and your husband decide to drive to Home Depot.

On the way there, Husband pulls into the car wash.

What do you do?

A. Express appreciation to your husband for being thoughtful and taking good care of you car.

B. Get bent out of shape because Car Wash was NOT in the plan!

If you chose B, the support group for husbands of wives who have control issues will start once I plan it. (I’ll make cookies!)

Learning what Matthew 11:30 really means challenges me daily (and sometimes HOURLY) to practice REST.

Matthew 11:30

“For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light.”

First things first. It’s YOKE not YOLK. (Glad I cleared that up for myself!)

Now, to understand this passage, you have to know the context.

Jesus was speaking to the people about spiritual burdens that the Pharisees had played upon them.

Some say the Pharisees added over 600 regulations about what “working” on the Sabbath meant.

Legalism leads to guilt, shame, self-righteousness, and burdens no one could endure.

Rest in the knowledge that you are not alone.

Take my yoke (not yolk) upon you and learn from me.

This was the perfect metaphor for people to understand.

A yoke (not yolk) is a fitted harness that secures 2 oxen together.

The farmer is specific about the oxen he uses to pull the cart.

On one side, the farmer secures the yoke to the ox that’s well-trained, knows what’s going on, and has been with him for a while.

On the other side, he secures the younger, possibly stubborn, know it all ox that needs direction.

The younger ox gets “on the job” training.

He takes his cue from the other ox.

If the stubborn ox turns the wrong way, he’s unable to go too far because he and the wiser ox are secured to the same yoke.

When the oxen are walking together, the yoke rests upon them and the cart is easily pulled.

The journey is only uncomfortable when the stubborn ox wants to take his own course.

But, the wiser ox knows the way.

He knows where the path dips, where the rough patches are, and how steep the hills will be.

He has walked this path before and he trusts the farmer.

This does NOT mean the JOURNEY will be easy, it means we are not alone along the way.

Jesus was urging the people to secure themselves to Him, not to the laws the Pharisees were forcing upon them.

1 John 5:3-4 (ESV- emphasis mine)

For this is the love of God, that we keep HIS commandments. And HIS commandments are not burdensome. For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world-our faith.

Give up doing it the hard way!

Unburden yourself from going it alone, feeling like you HAVE to control everything, or that YOUR way is the Best way!

Be secured to Christ.

He is walking beside us pulling our burdens to lighten the load.

The next time The Husband pulls into the car wash, I will remember, “I am the stubborn ox!”

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And let God lead you to still waters!

It’s better for you than Krispy Creme.

To celebrate the end of this series, I have a gift for you!


I had these Take Heart Notecards made up for you to download.

You can print them off on card-stock to write scripture, an encouraging note, or just “DON”T BE  THE STUBBORN OX!”

I would LOVE to see how you use them! Post a pic on Instagram with #takeheartingod




24 thoughts on “The Best Way to Overcome your Burdens

  • Linda R. Bridges March 3, 2016 at 5:31 am

    I think you have led me to find my favorite bible verse. I feel so peaceful after reading this verse, and seeing it written against the tree backdrop.

    I don’t want the series to end!

    Thank you for the wonderful walk through the bible, with your words of wisdom, and sassieness thrown in.

    Looking forward to more & more of 2heartsdesire.


  • Lisa Davis March 3, 2016 at 5:41 am

    Beautifully written, easy to follow and a wonderful way to start my day!


  • Sarah March 3, 2016 at 9:28 am

    Rebecca, another great post! I love that you’re teaching truth-with a little humor thrown in. Your writing style makes me smile-I love it! And thanks for the printable- what a fun gift. ??

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:05 pm

      Sarah, thank you so much for your kind words! Enjoy the printable! I have discovered gel pens! Lots of fun to decorate the scripture cards!

  • Cheryl March 3, 2016 at 7:23 pm

    This was awesome and very relevant to my daughter. A very nice way of sharing words she needs to hear. Thank you!

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:03 pm

      I hope your daughter is able to rest in HIM, Cheryl!

  • Miranda March 4, 2016 at 1:09 pm

    I love this: ” Legalism leads to guilt, shame, self-righteousness, and burdens no one could endure.” I will say I have been struggling for many months about the right way to do things, following all the rules–and you know what, I am a sinner and I will always come up short. Not to say I shouldn’t try to do the right things, but I should rest in God’s grace and mercy and not be so hard on myself! Thanks for this.

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:07 pm

      Miranda, I pray that you will find rest in Him. I have been right where you are. It is exhausting! Knowing that Christ is walking through peaks and valleys with me has been a tremendous comfort.

  • Valerie March 4, 2016 at 6:34 pm

    I love your explanation of this! This passage can be difficult to understand and now I have the perfect imagery for it! I am often like that stubborn ox! When we demand our own way, we often increase our burdens. Thank you for making me smile and for making me think!

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:09 pm

      Thank you, Valerie! I am so happy I could make you smile! You are completely right. Demanding our own way DOES increase your burdens!

  • Kirby March 4, 2016 at 9:50 pm

    Great post. I think the wiser ox knows that rather than pull and use all your might you trust in the Lord and work in conjunction with Him. When we trust and develop that relationship – allowing Him to take part of the load we free ourselves from our burdens. (Matthew 11:28 (ESV)

    I find my mind is more peaceful when I am in the word and committed to prayer.

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:11 pm

      That wiser ox…He knows what is going on, doesn’t he Kirby! Allow Him to take part of the load…that is perfect! Thank you for sharing that!

  • Jonathan Key March 5, 2016 at 9:53 pm

    It’s so important to rest in God’s love. Sometimes I feel like there’s more on my plate than I can handle. Then I remember that God wants me to rely on His strength and not my own. Great encouragement! Thanks for another great post.

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:12 pm

      I understand, Jonathan! I have a tendency to want to carry it all (Stubborn Ox that I am).
      I am glad you were encouraged! God is good like that!

  • jed March 6, 2016 at 5:51 pm

    Hey Rebecca,
    Thank you for the reminder to find rest in Him. This is something that I need to do more of, and Thank you for the reminder to let God lead–it’s a message that I needed to hear today!

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:15 pm

      You are very Welcome, Jed.
      I love God’s timing, don’t you! I am just a stubborn ox trying to stay close to the wiser one and follow His lead!

  • Brianna L. George (@BriannaLGeorge) March 6, 2016 at 6:56 pm

    I really enjoyed your humor! What a great post. His burden is light and yoke easy, sunny side up yolk of course. 😉

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:17 pm

      I laughed out loud at your comment, Brianna!
      Thanks so much for reading!! I appreciate it.

  • De March 7, 2016 at 12:18 pm

    After I realized that resting in Him was not a punishment but a release of burden to someone who could actually handle things. I tend to use it more and more. It was a hard adjustment (work in progress) control freak but I am getting closer and closer to mastering it every day. Going have to go back and check out the rest of the series.

    • Rebecca Williamson March 7, 2016 at 11:20 pm

      Control freak…I am President of THAT club! “Not a punishment but a release of burden”. Thank you for sharing that, De. I’d love to hear what you think about the series!

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